Erection problems can HELP
By Andrew S.Q. Taylor.
I've written an article before where in some cases erection problems may kill
your relationship. However did you know that in some cases, it may actually
HELP your relationship?
What's that you say ... am I going crazy? Nope, you've got to hear me out on
this one! Now I’m no psychiatrist (amateur or professional) but I will tell
you what I've learned from doing lots of interviews and conducting lots of
surveys with men with erection problems.
As you probably already know, erection problems may be caused by a wide range
of reasons or circumstances. One of these is purely psychological. In other
words, erection problems that stem from stuff going on in your head. "Pressure
to perform", insecurity, bad past experiences, can all contribute to erection
For instance I heard stories from guys who've had traumatic "first times" and
since then could not get it up. They have absolutely no problems with their
libido, no problems getting it up for masturbation etc ... but as soon as they
get into an intimate situation with a woman, nothing.
I've also heard stories from guys who were very insecure about their bodies,
especially from guys who were self conscious about their "size". One guy in
particular was laughed at when he tried to get intimate with a new lover.
Needless to say, that was not so successful an encounter. From that point on
he suffered from erection problems! Coincidence? Not likely!
So how can erection problems help your relationship? Well, it can help to
bring you and your partner closer because if your partner is sensitive to your
feelings, needs and insecurities (as any "real" partner should be) they can
actually help you to open up about these insecurities and get them out into
the open. This can be the first step to getting back those erections!
I can’t begin to count how many times I've heard from guys who say that once
they begin to talk to their significant others about their insecurities
(ESPECIALLY as it relates to their partners) and their partners started to
listen and empathize and sympathize with them, it almost instantaneously
helped to improve their erection problems!
Of course, for some it takes a while, especially if there are trust issues
involved. Here is where a supportive spouse or significant other can help out
by assuring the guy that there's no pressure, and acts in that manner! Here's
where they can suggest to the guy new and different ways of intimacy which
while "indirect" as far as men are concerned, can go a far way towards the
Quite often a way of dealing with these "mental" erection problem issues is to
try or participate in new or additional ways of satisfying your woman. Too
often time we men focus on just intercourse, and not nearly enough time of all
the other aspects of sexual intimacy. Encouraging and developing this aspect
of your relationship can bring couples closer together and ultimately, a
closer couple invariably enjoys the best sexual relationships.
The majority of men that I have spoken to say that going through this course
of action has not only strengthened their relationships, but have ultimately
given them back erections that were stronger than ever before! Moral of this
article? Get your partner/spouse involved, swallow your machismo and have them
help you with your erection issues. You'd be surprised what a little TLC can
do for your erection problems!
Written by Andrew S. Q. Taylor
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